That's the part that most people don't understand. They think a soulmate is your other half, the person who is going to complete you. They think when they find their soulmate, that everything will be easy, that the world will suddenly settle down around them, that the path ahead will be clear and simple, without obstruction or confusion. That's not exactly true. A soulmate can't make life run smooth. They're just the one who is going to hold tightest during the tricky bits.